R and I did not seem to be able to communicate so well anymore towards the end of 2009. I think that the multi-faceted pressures of life, including work, family, and just general day to day living had begun to overtake us. We did not seem to be able to make much time for ourselves or indeed our friends. We were in desperate need of some re-evaluation, and much needed rest. The trip to New Zealand over the Christmas period of 2009 provided us with just that respite. We had time to reflect, refocus and reconnect.
Upon our return to Blighty we found that things within the family had taken a downward spiral but due to our new found focus we were able to adapt and change without too much upheaval. Yes, it has meant that we have had to make changes within our working patterns but it has given us a new found sense of freedom. We can now be more flexible, see more people and best of all spend more time outside doing the things that we love.
Having small people around for the weekends has shown us that work is not the ultimate answer. People matter and because of this we have been able to find more time to share with family and friends.
It does seem strange that travelling 12,000 miles away, opened our eyes and proved the point that the world must have been trying to tell us all along. I'll admit that its not been easy, but I now look forward to Friday evening coming.
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